How NOT to be a creep at nudist places

[Dario Western]

http://feeds.bareoaks.ca/~r/NaturistLivingShow/~3/3Xng8Rtf0P0/how-not-to-be-creepy.html
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Best wishes,

Dario Western

Musician/Songwriter/Photographer/Artist/Social Activist/Naturist Upstart

"Political correctness is the delusion that it's possible to pick up a piece
of shit by the clean end"
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http://www.myspace.com/fatpizzaman

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[Anna]

http://feeds.bareoaks.ca/~r/NaturistLivingShow/~3/3Xng8Rtf0P0/how-not...
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This is a very good article. Basically it is saying if you are a man,
don't talk to women. Well you can talk to them, but don't crowd around
them.

Here's the audio program associated with the topic.

http://www.bareoaks.ca/podcast/creepy.mp3

http://tinyurl.com/22vsz8b

The only thing I would add is while yes, single males can be a
problem, nudist clubs should not underestimate the problems that can
be caused by perverted family. That is families where incest and other
unhealthy relationships are going on.

Here's the blog article about how not to be creepy.

http://naturistliving.bareoaks.ca/2010/06/how-not-to-be-creepy.html

http://tinyurl.com/278fkfy

Some individuals have more trouble than others getting people to
accept them. While that is true in our society as a whole, it can
become even more pronounced in a naturist environment. This is likely
because traditional barriers are dropped and the individual is
foremost. Additionally, people who are new to naturism can feel self-
conscious and clumsy as they battle emotions of awkwardness for
breaching traditional societal taboos.

For single men in particular, intentions can easily be misinterpreted.
It is normal for a single man to want to find a partner. But it is a
fine line between showing interest and being creepy. Not all single
women come to naturist clubs looking to meet someone. Women appreciate
naturism because it allows them to escape society’s pressure to reach
an impossible ideal of physical beauty. In naturism, they feel
accepted for who they are. But too much attention from a single man,
as friendly as it might be, can remind them of mainstream society’s
oppressive focus on their body. It can feel like harassment.

In general, making friends in naturism is not that different from the
rest of the world. Introducing yourself, being friendly without being
overbearing, finding people with common interests, participating in
activities, listening to people, and being trustworthy & reliable are
always good ways to make friends anywhere.

Naturism is founded on respect for self and others. Being respectful
(not just acting respectful) is the fundamental basis of good
interpersonal relationships. In this show, we discuss some pointers
for people who might be having some trouble getting accepted in a
naturist club.

[Neosapienis]

Post by Anna

http://feeds.bareoaks.ca/~r/NaturistLivingShow/~3/3Xng8Rtf0P0/how-not...
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This is a very good article. Basically it is saying if you are a man,
don't talk to women. Well you can talk to them, but don't crowd around
them.

That is certainly true. Women don't mind attention, but they do mind
unwanted attention and there is a fine line between both and that is
what some of these guys don't seem to understand.

Post by Anna
Here's the audio program associated with the topic.
http://www.bareoaks.ca/podcast/creepy.mp3
http://tinyurl.com/22vsz8b
The only thing I would add is while yes, single males can be a
problem, nudist clubs should not underestimate the problems that can
be caused by perverted family. That is families where incest and other
unhealthy relationships are going on.

I think the problem with such families is because incest is still very
much a hush-hush thing in our society, it's a lot harder to screen
them out than the lone guys who simply go either to gaze at the women
or in the hope of finding a girl for themselves.


Dario